From the very Beginning, the girl's family strongly disapproves on her dating this guy saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.
Due to family's pressure, the couple quarrel very often. Though the girl love the guy deeply, she always ask him: "How deep is your love for me?"
As the guy is not good with his words, this often causes the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the girl often vents her anger on him, but the guy endures it silently.
After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk to them. Will you marry me?"
The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he leaves, they got engaged.
The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.
One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mom crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice......
The doctors say that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.
During the stay in hospital, crying silently is her only companion. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same, Except for the ringing tone of the phone, which pierced into her heart every time it rang, she does not wish to let the guy know. She doesn’t want to be a burden to him. So she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.
With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phone calls, All the girl could do id to cry.
The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.
With a new environment, the girl learns sign language & started a new life, telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't any more news of him.
A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she opened the letter, she saw her name in it instead.
When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You.”
With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.
Monday, August 22, 2011
Sunday, August 21, 2011
THE WISDOM IN HOT CHOCOLATE
THE WISDOM IN HOT CHOCOLATE
A group of graduates, well established in their career, were discussing their lives at a class reunion, they decided to go visit their old university professor,who was a retired one and has always been an inspiration to them..
During their visit, the conversation turned into complaints about stress in their work , lives and relationship.
Offering his guests hot chocolate, the professor went into the kitchen and returned with a large pot of hot chocolate and assortment of cups. Some cups are porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite. He insisted each to help themselves for the hot chocolate and choose their own cups.
When they all had a cup of chocolate in hand, the professor shared his thoughts..
" Notice that all the nice looking , expensive cuips were taken , leaving the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. The cup that you drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot chocolate, it is just expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What each of you really wanted is the hot chocolates and you did not want the cups but you consciously went for the best cups.
Now friends consider this ....
Life is the hot chocolate ........
Your job, money, and position in society are the cups, they are just tools to hold us and contain life. The cups you have does not define nor does it change the quality of life you are living. But sometimes by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate that God has provided us.
Always remember this.
God brews the hot chocolate. He does not choose the cup.
The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything that they have..
LIVE SIMPLY............
LOVE GENEROUSLY...........
CARE DEEPLY...........
SPEAK KINDLY............
The richest person is not the one who had the most but the one who needs the least.....
ENJOY YOUR HOT CHOCOLATE!!!"
A group of graduates, well established in their career, were discussing their lives at a class reunion, they decided to go visit their old university professor,who was a retired one and has always been an inspiration to them..
During their visit, the conversation turned into complaints about stress in their work , lives and relationship.
Offering his guests hot chocolate, the professor went into the kitchen and returned with a large pot of hot chocolate and assortment of cups. Some cups are porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite. He insisted each to help themselves for the hot chocolate and choose their own cups.
When they all had a cup of chocolate in hand, the professor shared his thoughts..
" Notice that all the nice looking , expensive cuips were taken , leaving the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. The cup that you drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot chocolate, it is just expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What each of you really wanted is the hot chocolates and you did not want the cups but you consciously went for the best cups.
Now friends consider this ....
Life is the hot chocolate ........
Your job, money, and position in society are the cups, they are just tools to hold us and contain life. The cups you have does not define nor does it change the quality of life you are living. But sometimes by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate that God has provided us.
Always remember this.
God brews the hot chocolate. He does not choose the cup.
The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything that they have..
LIVE SIMPLY............
LOVE GENEROUSLY...........
CARE DEEPLY...........
SPEAK KINDLY............
The richest person is not the one who had the most but the one who needs the least.....
ENJOY YOUR HOT CHOCOLATE!!!"
Friday, August 19, 2011
STORY OF REGRET
STORY OF REGRET
There was this guy who believed very much in true love and decided to take his time to wait for his right girl to appear. He believed that there would definitely be someone special out there for him, but none came.
Every year at Christmas, his ex-girlfriend would return from Vancouver to look him up. He was aware that she still held some hope of re-kindling the past romance with him. He did not wish to mislead her in any way. So he would always get one of his girl friends to pose as his steady whenever she came back. That went on for several years and each year; the guy would get a different girl to pose as his romantic interest. So whenever the ex-girlfriend came to visit him, she would be led into believing that it was all over between her and the guy. The girl took all those rather well, often trying to casually tease him about his different girlfriends, or so, as it seemed! In fact, the girl often wept in secret whenever she saw him with another girl, but she was too proud to admit it. Still, every Christmas, she returned, hoping to re-kindle some form of romance. But each time, she returned to Vancouver feeling disappointed.
Finally she decided that she could not play that game any longer. Therefore, she confronted him and professed that after all those years, he was still the only man that she had ever loved. Although the guy knew of her feelings for him, he was still taken back and has never expected her to react that way. He always thought that she would slowly forget about him over time and come to terms that it was all over between them. Although he was touched by her undying love for him and wanted so much to accept her again, he remembered why he rejected her in the first place-she was not the one he wanted. So he hardened his heart and turned her down cruelly. Since then, three years have passed and the girl never returns anymore. They never even wrote to each other. The guy went on with his life..... Still searching for the one but somehow deep inside him, he missed the girl.
On the Christmas of 1995, he went to his friend's party alone. "Hey, how come you all alone this year? Where are all your girlfriends? What happened to that Vancouver babe who joins you every Christmas?", asked one of his friend. He felt warm and comforted by his friend's queries about her, still he just surged on.
Then, he came upon one of his many girlfriends whom he once requested to pose as his steady. He wanted so much to ignore her..... Not that he was impolite, but because at that moment, he just didn't feel comfortable with those girlfriends anymore. It was almost like he was being judged by them. The girl saw him and shouted across the floor for him. Unable to avoid her, he went up to acknowledge her.
"Hi......how are you? Enjoying the party?" the girl asked.
"Sure.....yeah!", he replied.
She was slightly tipsy..... must be from the whiskey on her hand. She continued,
"Why...? Don't you need someone to pose as your girlfriend this year?" Then he answered, "No, there is no need for that anymore......"
Before he can continue, he was interrupted, "Oh yes! Must have found a girlfriend! You haven't been searching for one for the past years, right?" The man looked up, as if he has struck gold, his face beamed and looked directly at the drunken girl. He replied, "Yes......you are right! I haven't been looking for anyone for the past years."
With that, the man darted across the floor and out the door, leaving the lady in much bewilderment. He finally realized that he has already found his dream girl, and she was.....the Vancouver girl all along! The drunken lady has said something that awoken him.
All along he has found his girl. That was why he did not bother to look further when he realized she was not coming back. It was not any specific girl he was seeking! It was perfection that he wanted, and yes.....perfection!!
Relationship is something both parties should work on. Realizing that he had let away someone so important in his life, he decided to call her immediately. His whole mind was flooded with fear. He was afraid that she might have found someone new or no longer had the same feelings anymore..... For once, he felt the fear of losing someone.
As it was Christmas Eve, the line was quite hard to get through, especially an overseas call. He tried again and again, never giving up. Finally, he got through......precisely at 1200 midnight. He confessed his love for her and the girl was moved to tears. It seemed that she never got over him! Even after so long, she was still waiting for him, never giving up.
He was so excited to meet her and to begin his new chapter of their lives. He decided to fly to Vancouver to join her. It was the happiest time of their lives! But their happy time was short-lived. Two days before he was supposed to fly to Vancouver, he received a call from her father. She had a head-on car collision with a drunken driver. She passed away after 6 hours in a coma.
The guy was devastated, as it was a complete loss. Why fate did played such cruel games with him? He cursed the heaven for taking her away from him, denying even one last look at her! How cruel he cursed! How he damned the Gods...!! How he hated himself....for taking so long to realize his mistake!! That was in 1996.
The moral of this story is:
Treasure what you have...
Time is too slow for those who wait;
Too swift for those who fear;
Too long for those who grief;
Too short for those who rejoice;
But for those who love...
Time is Eternity.
For all you out there with someone special in your heart, cherish that person, cherish every moment that you spend together that special someone, for in life, anything can happen anytime. You may painfully regret, only to realize that it is too late.
There was this guy who believed very much in true love and decided to take his time to wait for his right girl to appear. He believed that there would definitely be someone special out there for him, but none came.
Every year at Christmas, his ex-girlfriend would return from Vancouver to look him up. He was aware that she still held some hope of re-kindling the past romance with him. He did not wish to mislead her in any way. So he would always get one of his girl friends to pose as his steady whenever she came back. That went on for several years and each year; the guy would get a different girl to pose as his romantic interest. So whenever the ex-girlfriend came to visit him, she would be led into believing that it was all over between her and the guy. The girl took all those rather well, often trying to casually tease him about his different girlfriends, or so, as it seemed! In fact, the girl often wept in secret whenever she saw him with another girl, but she was too proud to admit it. Still, every Christmas, she returned, hoping to re-kindle some form of romance. But each time, she returned to Vancouver feeling disappointed.
Finally she decided that she could not play that game any longer. Therefore, she confronted him and professed that after all those years, he was still the only man that she had ever loved. Although the guy knew of her feelings for him, he was still taken back and has never expected her to react that way. He always thought that she would slowly forget about him over time and come to terms that it was all over between them. Although he was touched by her undying love for him and wanted so much to accept her again, he remembered why he rejected her in the first place-she was not the one he wanted. So he hardened his heart and turned her down cruelly. Since then, three years have passed and the girl never returns anymore. They never even wrote to each other. The guy went on with his life..... Still searching for the one but somehow deep inside him, he missed the girl.
On the Christmas of 1995, he went to his friend's party alone. "Hey, how come you all alone this year? Where are all your girlfriends? What happened to that Vancouver babe who joins you every Christmas?", asked one of his friend. He felt warm and comforted by his friend's queries about her, still he just surged on.
Then, he came upon one of his many girlfriends whom he once requested to pose as his steady. He wanted so much to ignore her..... Not that he was impolite, but because at that moment, he just didn't feel comfortable with those girlfriends anymore. It was almost like he was being judged by them. The girl saw him and shouted across the floor for him. Unable to avoid her, he went up to acknowledge her.
"Hi......how are you? Enjoying the party?" the girl asked.
"Sure.....yeah!", he replied.
She was slightly tipsy..... must be from the whiskey on her hand. She continued,
"Why...? Don't you need someone to pose as your girlfriend this year?" Then he answered, "No, there is no need for that anymore......"
Before he can continue, he was interrupted, "Oh yes! Must have found a girlfriend! You haven't been searching for one for the past years, right?" The man looked up, as if he has struck gold, his face beamed and looked directly at the drunken girl. He replied, "Yes......you are right! I haven't been looking for anyone for the past years."
With that, the man darted across the floor and out the door, leaving the lady in much bewilderment. He finally realized that he has already found his dream girl, and she was.....the Vancouver girl all along! The drunken lady has said something that awoken him.
All along he has found his girl. That was why he did not bother to look further when he realized she was not coming back. It was not any specific girl he was seeking! It was perfection that he wanted, and yes.....perfection!!
Relationship is something both parties should work on. Realizing that he had let away someone so important in his life, he decided to call her immediately. His whole mind was flooded with fear. He was afraid that she might have found someone new or no longer had the same feelings anymore..... For once, he felt the fear of losing someone.
As it was Christmas Eve, the line was quite hard to get through, especially an overseas call. He tried again and again, never giving up. Finally, he got through......precisely at 1200 midnight. He confessed his love for her and the girl was moved to tears. It seemed that she never got over him! Even after so long, she was still waiting for him, never giving up.
He was so excited to meet her and to begin his new chapter of their lives. He decided to fly to Vancouver to join her. It was the happiest time of their lives! But their happy time was short-lived. Two days before he was supposed to fly to Vancouver, he received a call from her father. She had a head-on car collision with a drunken driver. She passed away after 6 hours in a coma.
The guy was devastated, as it was a complete loss. Why fate did played such cruel games with him? He cursed the heaven for taking her away from him, denying even one last look at her! How cruel he cursed! How he damned the Gods...!! How he hated himself....for taking so long to realize his mistake!! That was in 1996.
The moral of this story is:
Treasure what you have...
Time is too slow for those who wait;
Too swift for those who fear;
Too long for those who grief;
Too short for those who rejoice;
But for those who love...
Time is Eternity.
For all you out there with someone special in your heart, cherish that person, cherish every moment that you spend together that special someone, for in life, anything can happen anytime. You may painfully regret, only to realize that it is too late.
TWO SIDES OF LOVE
TWO SIDES OF LOVE
My side
-"tell her how you feel" is what my friends said
-so i picked up the phone
-called your house
-you answered
-i said "i love you"
-and hung up right after
-the next day
-i told you it was a bet from a friend
-it was partly true
-but you didn’t answer
-no sassy come back which you always do
-just stood there
-then walked away
Her side
-you called my house
-i picked up
-you told me you loved me
-then hung up
-the next day
-i was going to tell you i loved you back
-but you said it was a bet
-i had everything planned out
-every move i planned
-every word
-but when you said that...
-i had nothing to say
-i stood and watched you
-as you broke my heart
My side
-"tell her how you feel" is what my friends said
-so i picked up the phone
-called your house
-you answered
-i said "i love you"
-and hung up right after
-the next day
-i told you it was a bet from a friend
-it was partly true
-but you didn’t answer
-no sassy come back which you always do
-just stood there
-then walked away
Her side
-you called my house
-i picked up
-you told me you loved me
-then hung up
-the next day
-i was going to tell you i loved you back
-but you said it was a bet
-i had everything planned out
-every move i planned
-every word
-but when you said that...
-i had nothing to say
-i stood and watched you
-as you broke my heart
A Diary From A Guy
A Diary From A Guy
January 2*
Do you still remember the first time we met? It was the first day in school. I was hurriedly entering the school gate when I bumped into you as you stepped out of a luxurious Volvo. The books you were holding fell all over the ground. I quickly picked up the books and returned them to you along with words of apology, but all you showed me was your intimidating look. My first impression of you was that you were a willful girl born with a golden stingy in the mouth. I had rejected you completely and had hoped not to meet you again, but surprisingly you turned out to be my classmate.
*March 22*
I started to know more about you as days passed and my opinion of you changed for the better on each passing day. I realized that you were from a wealthy family but definitely not a willful girl. You were nice and friendly. You got angry that day we first met because I had left a footprint marking on the poetry collection you loved dearly. We met often during lunch break and I found something in you that were different from the rest of the girls - your passion for Chinese poetry. Often you would mumble something to yourself. Initially, I thought that you were humming a pop song but
later I realized that you had been reciting Chinese poems from great poets. You were so knowledgeable that you knew every poet and which poems they composed. I was very impressed indeed.
*April 5*
I met you again in the study area. That day you were reading the Chinese classics "Romance of the 3 kingdom". Your ability to appreciate Chinese classics left me with admiration. You were indeed unique in many ways.
*May 5*
From then on, we would often meet in the study area to discuss about the good and bad things of the character in these Chinese classics. Do you still remember the time when we almost broke off because we could not agree on whether Jia BaoYu hurt Lin Dai Yu? Our argument was so fierce that we never talked for that week. But when Friday came, we still met in the study area and laughed over the incident. After which, another argument started.
*Aug 7*
I could not deny it. It was a feeling I could not identify accurately. Whenever you laughed over a joke with other guys, that emotion filled my senses. It took me a while before identified it. I was in love; the feeling was jealousy. I felt the need to express it. But, I was afraid...that you would dismiss my feeling, that you and I would be stuck in an embarrassing situation, that our long nurtured friendship would crumble...therefore, I kept quiet.
*Oct 1*
The news came as a shock to me. I was so worried when I learnt that you had fainted in the canteen. I was struggling to keep my worried face in control as I looked at the ambulance that carried you away.
*Oct 2*
It was drizzling that day. Our form teacher sadly announced that you had got cancer. As she finished her last sentence, outside the classroom, it seemed to me that the drizzle had turned into a downpour. I could only hear the sound of the rain, nothing more. I rushed to NUH ICU to see you immediately after lesson. Your face was whitish in color, showing no trace of red. I learnt that you had just undergone an operation. The life-support system was just beside you with tubes piercing mercilessly into your left wrist. "I am all right; it is just a serious case of anemia. Believe me, my parents told me that". You said convincingly. I knew fully well what you were thinking; you did not want me to be worried. "Are you comforting yourself or comforting the fears and hopelessness that was written all over my face?", I thought to myself. I was not strong enough to disagree with you and I nodded my head with a forced smile. You responded with a smile too-with great effort.
*Oct 5*
It was a ordinary day but to me, it was an important day. I felt an impulse to express my love. I walked over to the side of your bed, holding your hand. I told you the story of how an ordinary guy fell in love with a girl who likes poetry and Chinese classics. As I told my story, my eyes started to flood with water, and uncontrollably my voice started to choke, and finally I broke into tear But you held my head against your body and with watery eyes, said: "I understand such a love, so did the girl." I returned my eyes to her and at that moment, her tears dropped, and for the first time, I saw some redness on her lips.
*Oct 26*
It was the last day of examination and I rushed to NUH to continue my story. When I reached there, I only saw the nurse arranging the bed you once slept on. When I asked about you, the nurse told me expressionlessly that you had passed away. It was a bolt from the blue for me. I stood motionless for a long time. I hated myself for spending the last few days preparing for the last examination paper. I hated myself for not staying longer the last time I visited you. I hated myself so much...but you were gone...... I can't remember how I got home that day. When I woke up, I was already in my room. The pillow I slept on was wet. The next day, I went for the funeral. I heard from your father that on the day you passed away, you were still reading the Poetry collection I gave you as a gift for your birthday. Standing in front of your portrait, I had no tears; they were used up on the day of your death. All I knew was sadness; my heart was like shattered into pieces and died.
*Jan 2*
A new girl has taken over your seat. She does not like poetry, but she likes to hum pop songs. When I asked her if she knows Jia Bao Yu, she replied: "What talking you." Yes, you were gone. But to me, the seat is still unoccupied, and maybe no one will ever occupy it......
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
This is a true story that happened 10 years ago!!!! Now then can fully understand what the author means by "A PERSON WILL KNOW WHAT IS PAIN ONLY WHEN HE HAS BEEN THROUGH IT...." To cut the whole story short...jus wanna tell u pple that.....
IF U TRULY LOVE THAT SOMEONE... JUS GO RIGHT UP TO HIM OR HER OR GIVE A PHONE CALL RIGHT NOW TO SAY "I lUV U " AND EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS FOR THAT PERSON B4 IT'S TOO LATE!!!!!
A Guy would rather shed blood than shed tears but that's because he has yet experience sadness. The moral of the story is to treasure your love ones coz they might not be always around. Share this story to those you cherish most and let them feel their "presence" is important as they are part of our lives too!!
January 2*
Do you still remember the first time we met? It was the first day in school. I was hurriedly entering the school gate when I bumped into you as you stepped out of a luxurious Volvo. The books you were holding fell all over the ground. I quickly picked up the books and returned them to you along with words of apology, but all you showed me was your intimidating look. My first impression of you was that you were a willful girl born with a golden stingy in the mouth. I had rejected you completely and had hoped not to meet you again, but surprisingly you turned out to be my classmate.
*March 22*
I started to know more about you as days passed and my opinion of you changed for the better on each passing day. I realized that you were from a wealthy family but definitely not a willful girl. You were nice and friendly. You got angry that day we first met because I had left a footprint marking on the poetry collection you loved dearly. We met often during lunch break and I found something in you that were different from the rest of the girls - your passion for Chinese poetry. Often you would mumble something to yourself. Initially, I thought that you were humming a pop song but
later I realized that you had been reciting Chinese poems from great poets. You were so knowledgeable that you knew every poet and which poems they composed. I was very impressed indeed.
*April 5*
I met you again in the study area. That day you were reading the Chinese classics "Romance of the 3 kingdom". Your ability to appreciate Chinese classics left me with admiration. You were indeed unique in many ways.
*May 5*
From then on, we would often meet in the study area to discuss about the good and bad things of the character in these Chinese classics. Do you still remember the time when we almost broke off because we could not agree on whether Jia BaoYu hurt Lin Dai Yu? Our argument was so fierce that we never talked for that week. But when Friday came, we still met in the study area and laughed over the incident. After which, another argument started.
*Aug 7*
I could not deny it. It was a feeling I could not identify accurately. Whenever you laughed over a joke with other guys, that emotion filled my senses. It took me a while before identified it. I was in love; the feeling was jealousy. I felt the need to express it. But, I was afraid...that you would dismiss my feeling, that you and I would be stuck in an embarrassing situation, that our long nurtured friendship would crumble...therefore, I kept quiet.
*Oct 1*
The news came as a shock to me. I was so worried when I learnt that you had fainted in the canteen. I was struggling to keep my worried face in control as I looked at the ambulance that carried you away.
*Oct 2*
It was drizzling that day. Our form teacher sadly announced that you had got cancer. As she finished her last sentence, outside the classroom, it seemed to me that the drizzle had turned into a downpour. I could only hear the sound of the rain, nothing more. I rushed to NUH ICU to see you immediately after lesson. Your face was whitish in color, showing no trace of red. I learnt that you had just undergone an operation. The life-support system was just beside you with tubes piercing mercilessly into your left wrist. "I am all right; it is just a serious case of anemia. Believe me, my parents told me that". You said convincingly. I knew fully well what you were thinking; you did not want me to be worried. "Are you comforting yourself or comforting the fears and hopelessness that was written all over my face?", I thought to myself. I was not strong enough to disagree with you and I nodded my head with a forced smile. You responded with a smile too-with great effort.
*Oct 5*
It was a ordinary day but to me, it was an important day. I felt an impulse to express my love. I walked over to the side of your bed, holding your hand. I told you the story of how an ordinary guy fell in love with a girl who likes poetry and Chinese classics. As I told my story, my eyes started to flood with water, and uncontrollably my voice started to choke, and finally I broke into tear But you held my head against your body and with watery eyes, said: "I understand such a love, so did the girl." I returned my eyes to her and at that moment, her tears dropped, and for the first time, I saw some redness on her lips.
*Oct 26*
It was the last day of examination and I rushed to NUH to continue my story. When I reached there, I only saw the nurse arranging the bed you once slept on. When I asked about you, the nurse told me expressionlessly that you had passed away. It was a bolt from the blue for me. I stood motionless for a long time. I hated myself for spending the last few days preparing for the last examination paper. I hated myself for not staying longer the last time I visited you. I hated myself so much...but you were gone...... I can't remember how I got home that day. When I woke up, I was already in my room. The pillow I slept on was wet. The next day, I went for the funeral. I heard from your father that on the day you passed away, you were still reading the Poetry collection I gave you as a gift for your birthday. Standing in front of your portrait, I had no tears; they were used up on the day of your death. All I knew was sadness; my heart was like shattered into pieces and died.
*Jan 2*
A new girl has taken over your seat. She does not like poetry, but she likes to hum pop songs. When I asked her if she knows Jia Bao Yu, she replied: "What talking you." Yes, you were gone. But to me, the seat is still unoccupied, and maybe no one will ever occupy it......
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
This is a true story that happened 10 years ago!!!! Now then can fully understand what the author means by "A PERSON WILL KNOW WHAT IS PAIN ONLY WHEN HE HAS BEEN THROUGH IT...." To cut the whole story short...jus wanna tell u pple that.....
IF U TRULY LOVE THAT SOMEONE... JUS GO RIGHT UP TO HIM OR HER OR GIVE A PHONE CALL RIGHT NOW TO SAY "I lUV U " AND EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS FOR THAT PERSON B4 IT'S TOO LATE!!!!!
A Guy would rather shed blood than shed tears but that's because he has yet experience sadness. The moral of the story is to treasure your love ones coz they might not be always around. Share this story to those you cherish most and let them feel their "presence" is important as they are part of our lives too!!
Friday, August 12, 2011
Isang mahalagang bagay na natutunan namin ng mga kaibigan kong sina Camille at Shiela..
"Ang love, kapag dumating sa time na hindi natin kailangan, tulad ng time na bata pa tayo, nag-aaral at syempre..ung tipong binabawalan tayo ng magulang natin na makipagrelasyon...
ang tawag jan....TEMPTATION...
Pero kapag ang love...dumating sa time na nasa tamang edad na tayo at pwede na...
ang tawag jan...BLESSING..."
kung tutuusin...tama naman...nalulungkot nga aqoh para sa mga kaibigan kong pasaway na hay naku..parang wala ng aabutang lalaki sa mundo...
and isa pang lesson which is pinaka favorite ko sa lahat..
"Di baleng walang lalaki na dumating sa buhay ko...okay lang...mabubuhay ako...
pero pag PAMILYA at kaibigan ang nawala...Kahit kailan pa...hindi ko kakayaning mabuhay..."
"Ang love, kapag dumating sa time na hindi natin kailangan, tulad ng time na bata pa tayo, nag-aaral at syempre..ung tipong binabawalan tayo ng magulang natin na makipagrelasyon...
ang tawag jan....TEMPTATION...
Pero kapag ang love...dumating sa time na nasa tamang edad na tayo at pwede na...
ang tawag jan...BLESSING..."
kung tutuusin...tama naman...nalulungkot nga aqoh para sa mga kaibigan kong pasaway na hay naku..parang wala ng aabutang lalaki sa mundo...
and isa pang lesson which is pinaka favorite ko sa lahat..
"Di baleng walang lalaki na dumating sa buhay ko...okay lang...mabubuhay ako...
pero pag PAMILYA at kaibigan ang nawala...Kahit kailan pa...hindi ko kakayaning mabuhay..."
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Everything has it's own time.
Simula ng magcollege ako, madalas kong ipagdasal kay Lord na sana po, walang magkagusto saking lalaki at sana wala po kong magustuhan. Pero hay...sakit sa ulo, tatlo na ata silang nangangakong aantayin ako eh hindi naman ako nagpapaantay.
Naiisip ko ngang madalas, bat ba puro lovelife na lang naririnig ko sa mga tao. Sa TV, hindi kumpleto ang palabas kapag walang love story ni lalaki at girl na bida. Sa mga novels, love story pa rin. KAya ayan, karamihan sa mga kabataan, imbes na pag-aaral, walang inatupag kundi ang tumataginting na LOVELIFE!!!!hay naku....
Yung tipong, hindi mabubuhay pag walang syota at halos magbigti pag niloko ni boyfriend. At naku, ewan ko ba, isa pang kinakainis ko pag nanonood ako ng TV eh ang pabata ng pabatang edad ng mga bida sa mga Love story ika nga. Kaya ayan, ang epekto, daming mga elementary pa lang, may syota na. Kaya daming nabubuntis eh.
Well, naiisip ko, walang masamang mag enter ng relationship as long as you know your limitations at kung hanggang saan lang ang dapat na maramdaman ng puso. Totoo, nakakainspired naman talagang mainlove and maraming tao ang nagtatransform into good samaritan dahil sa love. But, everything has their right time and places. Kung para sayo yan, para sayo talaga yan. Ano mang takbo at iwas gawin mo, sayo't sayo pa rin yan. And bear in mind my dear readers, true love can wait. Yan ang motto ko pagdating sa love. So wala tayong dapat ipagmadali. Iba pa rin yung piliin natin yung mga mamahalin ant kakasamahin natin habang buhay ng tayo ay stable na in all aspect. And most of all, ang relationship na maagang umusbong, naniniwala akong maaga ding malalanta lalo na kung hindi pa handa dahil sa mahinang pundasyon.
Kaya nga naiisip ko, yung lalaking mamahalin ako kahit na kulubot na ko at kaya kong hintayin hanggang mag 50 years old, yun ang mamahalin habang nabubuhay ako. Bakit?dahil yun ang true love..para saan pa ang motto kong..TRUE LOVE CAN WAIT kung sandali lang mag-aantayan diba? Tsakah sabi nga ng prof ko sa philosophy of man, RELATIONSHIPS BECAME TRUE WHEN YOU NO LONGER SEE THE PHYSICAL ASPECT OF A PERSON, INSTEAD, YOU PAY THE MOST OF YOUR ATTENTION TO THE SOUL THAT IS RESIDING DEEP WITHIN THAT PERSON.
Naalala ko tuloy ang panaginip one night wherein nakita ko ang soul ng crush ko. Yung crush ko na yon, i don't know if its really a crush or...something na more than pa dun. Pero sa ngayon, ayokoh muna isipin ang sagot. Focus muna ko sa pag-aaral ko at saka na yung mga ganyan pag stable na buhay ko. Yung tipong yun na lang ang kulang sakin. Sa ngayon naman, masaya ko na nakikita ko sya, kahit hindi nya ko nakikita, and masaya ko na everything is doing well in his life. Pag dumating yung araw na for the second time, makita ko sya, i would always be glad dahil nagkaroon pa ko ng chance na makita sya.
Goodnight everyone. I love my family....so much....Lets all be thankful that God has been always with us...
Naiisip ko ngang madalas, bat ba puro lovelife na lang naririnig ko sa mga tao. Sa TV, hindi kumpleto ang palabas kapag walang love story ni lalaki at girl na bida. Sa mga novels, love story pa rin. KAya ayan, karamihan sa mga kabataan, imbes na pag-aaral, walang inatupag kundi ang tumataginting na LOVELIFE!!!!hay naku....
Yung tipong, hindi mabubuhay pag walang syota at halos magbigti pag niloko ni boyfriend. At naku, ewan ko ba, isa pang kinakainis ko pag nanonood ako ng TV eh ang pabata ng pabatang edad ng mga bida sa mga Love story ika nga. Kaya ayan, ang epekto, daming mga elementary pa lang, may syota na. Kaya daming nabubuntis eh.
Well, naiisip ko, walang masamang mag enter ng relationship as long as you know your limitations at kung hanggang saan lang ang dapat na maramdaman ng puso. Totoo, nakakainspired naman talagang mainlove and maraming tao ang nagtatransform into good samaritan dahil sa love. But, everything has their right time and places. Kung para sayo yan, para sayo talaga yan. Ano mang takbo at iwas gawin mo, sayo't sayo pa rin yan. And bear in mind my dear readers, true love can wait. Yan ang motto ko pagdating sa love. So wala tayong dapat ipagmadali. Iba pa rin yung piliin natin yung mga mamahalin ant kakasamahin natin habang buhay ng tayo ay stable na in all aspect. And most of all, ang relationship na maagang umusbong, naniniwala akong maaga ding malalanta lalo na kung hindi pa handa dahil sa mahinang pundasyon.
Kaya nga naiisip ko, yung lalaking mamahalin ako kahit na kulubot na ko at kaya kong hintayin hanggang mag 50 years old, yun ang mamahalin habang nabubuhay ako. Bakit?dahil yun ang true love..para saan pa ang motto kong..TRUE LOVE CAN WAIT kung sandali lang mag-aantayan diba? Tsakah sabi nga ng prof ko sa philosophy of man, RELATIONSHIPS BECAME TRUE WHEN YOU NO LONGER SEE THE PHYSICAL ASPECT OF A PERSON, INSTEAD, YOU PAY THE MOST OF YOUR ATTENTION TO THE SOUL THAT IS RESIDING DEEP WITHIN THAT PERSON.
Naalala ko tuloy ang panaginip one night wherein nakita ko ang soul ng crush ko. Yung crush ko na yon, i don't know if its really a crush or...something na more than pa dun. Pero sa ngayon, ayokoh muna isipin ang sagot. Focus muna ko sa pag-aaral ko at saka na yung mga ganyan pag stable na buhay ko. Yung tipong yun na lang ang kulang sakin. Sa ngayon naman, masaya ko na nakikita ko sya, kahit hindi nya ko nakikita, and masaya ko na everything is doing well in his life. Pag dumating yung araw na for the second time, makita ko sya, i would always be glad dahil nagkaroon pa ko ng chance na makita sya.
Goodnight everyone. I love my family....so much....Lets all be thankful that God has been always with us...
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